What is Swag?
According to urban dictionary, it is the "appearance, style, or the way he or she presents themselves" ex:
He got a killa swag.
I don't know about you but I think these familiar faces below have some "killa swag"...
So now that you understand the definition and essentially, what swag can look like. How do you go about acquiring something that's just not, in any way, physical or tangible? I've come with my own ways to acquire this magical mojo, 'je ne sais quoi', or better yet, a more confident You!
10 RULES TO ACQUIRE SWAG
1.
Dress sharp. Look in the mirror and ask yourself if this is someone you would trust, respect, and admire.
2. Improve your posture and
don't slouch. Slouching gives off a lazy-I-don't-give-a-damn-about-anything look and decreases the level of respect you could have won from just your posture.
First impressions are everything - - sad but true, folks.
3.
Know your strengths and weaknesses. Tap into your strengths, find ways to improve those strengths even more and most importantly, transform those weaknesses into strengths. Rinse and Repeat.
4. I know I've said it before but I'll say it again. Be comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Embrace the unknown and know every situation will work out in the best way possible for you.
5. Stay calm and collected.
Be cool. People who freak out definitely do not have swag.
6. Say thank you when someone compliments you and really mean it. By all means,
do not deflect compliments because you are #1. Remember that.
7. Work out. It's a great swag booster.
Even if it's just for 15 minutes, it's better than 0 minutes. Trust me, 15 minutes can do a lot to increase your levels of self-confidence.
8. Learn to say no. And say it firmly. You don't have to do anything if you don't want to.
Don't pull that passive-aggressive attitude because that's admitting you don't have the swag to control your own world.
9. Surround yourself with people who inspire you and want you to be better. If you're anything like me, I spend a lot of time with my friends and they can either make or break you.
Choose your friends wisely.
10. Most importantly, be yourself. But,
be the person you have always wanted to be. A new and improved you. It doesn't mean you have to change, it means you are taking care of yourself and loving yourself that much more.
There you have it. Those are my 10 essential ways to acquire swag. If you have any more tips, please feel free to leave a comment! I hope everyone has been having a fantastic weekend and don't forget, tomorrow is Father's day!